From Stuck, Burned-Out, and Self-Doubting to Clear, Confident, and In Control
I help successful men in London, Surrey & Sussex break free from the life they've built but don't want—and create one that actually fulfils them.
You've achieved what you thought would make you happy. The job, the income, maybe the relationship. But something's missing. You feel trapped by your own success, paralyzed by self-doubt, and exhausted from pretending everything's fine.
I specialise in getting men unstuck—fast. Using proven NLP techniques and a no-BS coaching approach, my clients gain clarity on what they actually want, build the confidence to go after it, and take action on decisions they've been avoiding for years.
⚠️ Limited Availability: Only 2 coaching spots remaining for January 2026 starts
Book a free call with me below to see if we're a fit!
Oisin L.
Verified Review
One of the best investments I’ve made!
I’ve been in the personal development industry for the last 5 years now and so I have invested quite a lot into personal growth. But investing in coaching with Shawn has definitely been one of the best investments I’ve made. He genuinely cares about getting you the results you are after and will hold you accountable to your goals and will ensure you stay on track...
Is This You?
You're successful on paper, but:
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You feel empty despite achieving your goals — The promotion, the salary, the lifestyle... none of it feels like you thought it would
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You're burned out and trapped — Working 60-hour weeks with no time for yourself, and you can't see a way out
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You know something needs to change, but you're paralyzed — Should you leave your job? Your relationship? Start over? The uncertainty keeps you frozen
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Self-doubt is crippling your decisions — You second-guess everything, overthink opportunities, and watch other men take action while you stay stuck
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You've tried fixing it yourself — Books, podcasts, gym routines... but nothing creates lasting change
If this sounds like you, you're in the right place. This isn't about your work ethic or your intelligence—it's about the limiting beliefs and mental blocks that keep high-achieving men trapped in lives they've outgrown.
5 Benefits of Working With Me.
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Clarity around your path in life and a revived hunger to succeed.
Powerful NLP techniques which can rapidly shift your mindset, helping you deal with stress and overcome negative habits.
Recognising what is truly holding you back, and the proven methods on how to transcend them — for good.
More abundance in all areas of your life, including your finances.
Deeper understanding of yourself, leading to a greater levels of confidence, optimism, and self love.
"At Shawn Nell Coaching, I specialize in men's life coaching tailored to empower and guide you through personal and professional challenges. Whether you're seeking coaching for men to enhance your personal development or looking for career coaching to achieve your goals, our male empowerment coaching offers personalized strategies for success. Discover how life coaching for men can transform your approach to life and well-being. If you're searching for the best life coach for men or exploring men's mental health coaching, I'm here to support your journey."
The Proven Coaching Process
Every person is unique, and so are their obstacles. This is why I believe in a holistic approach to coaching, taking into account your lifestyle, nutrition, exercise and mental health, to achieve lasting transformation. Getting started is simple:
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Book A Free Call
Book a friendly 20 min chat to see where you are at, what challenges you are facing, and where you would like to be.
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Choose A Coaching Plan
That Suits You
If we're a match, I'll create a coaching plan with you that fits your current schedule, to get you to where you want to be.
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Enjoy Gaining Momentum
with Ongoing Support.
Gain momentum fast with regular 1:1 coaching calls, on-going accountability, and weekly mindset tips.
Here's What A Few Of My Clients Said:
J.W
Verified Review
Working with Shawn has been really eye opening
Working with Shawn has been really eye opening. It's allowed me to see that long term change can happen and any goal can be achieved but it takes a relentless approach to navigating your focus. Working with Shawn allows that process to become visible and that enables you to personally define what your route can be. I think the key thing I learned is that this can provide instant results by putting positive actions into motion straight away but also you need to keep doing those things to change course permanently, reflecting on what's important for you as each you take each step.
And in that way you gradually define what your journey needs to be.
Want To Work With Me?
Bespoke Hiking or Running Coaching Retreat
A 3 day intensive coaching retreat, side-by-side with Shawn, in the breathtaking Italian Dolomites.
Book Your Free Call
No matter how successful you are or what stage of life you are at, if you find yourself feeling empty and unfulfilled it may be time to reach out. Book a free 20 min call with me below so I can see what challenges you are facing, and how I can best help you.
Remember! You can change… but only you can take the first step.
Photo of Shawn completing the Lavaredo Ultra Trail UTMB, this can be YOU !